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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op,
Stop feeling guilty and skip it one year and reevaluate. I can't get over the posters who are making it sound like you are abusing your children by not taking them.  Just because your kids enjoy it doesn't mean you have to make it work every year.

[b]I'm a bit put off that it seems you have the largest brood thus more complications and your family seems to ignore your needs.[/b]

I couldn't stand being trapped in one house with the different personalities. The family member who gets upset about your older dc playing on the ipad needs to be told to mind her own business. She is trying to control your child and those decisions are entirely your own.

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Why do people with more kids take priority over people with fewer kids? When you decide to have multiple children, then complicated schedules kind of go along with the package. [/quote]

Weighing in on this point. I agree 100%. Because you have more kids, or any kids, does not give you any more right to accommodations. You can choose to negotiate or ultimately decide a situation does not work for your family and bow out, but the world does not to compromise because of your family structure.[/quote]

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