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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I find it hard to believe that he's never done anything like this in 7 yrs. Perhaps smaller incidents, ones you've forgotten/forgive, etc. One doesn't typically turn into a controlling jerk suddenly with no prior warning. The texting you and then refusing to discuss it? Totally controlling and he did it because he knew he'd ruin your day and cause you to worry or stew about it. He could easily have waited, or responded to you. Telling you about 'smelling available' and all of that other stuff? Definitely not OK. The fact that he has a chronic illness is totally irrelevant here. That's no excuse to treat you this way. I'd definitely discuss it with him, not change your behavior in any way, and keep an eye out for the emergence of stronger (because I doubt they're new) patterns of the same.[/quote]
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