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[quote=Anonymous][quote]The other thing I'll pass along, simply because everything you said is so eerily familiar, is that when I finally started to take care of myself w/r/t my family, I came to learn that my sister wasn't the ally I thought she was, and that was tremendously painful. She wasn't ready to separate herself from the drama and start really healing, and when I wasn't willing to continue going on that trip with her, she became extremely angry with me and lashed out. Hopefully your sister wouldn't react the same way, but it's worth being prepared for. [/quote] OP You need to stop letting your sister drag you into this. It is her relationship with your mom. You are only getting pain (and manipulation) out of both of them working things out with you as a third party punching bag. Break down the 3 way communication. Ask your sis no cc, please.[/quote]
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