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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, since you an atheist, you have to find a therapist who will assist you with forgiveness concept. Don't hang on mother's apology, it is irrelevant for your inner well being. Once you learn to forgive, you will see your mother's actions in a different light. If you want to have civilized relations with your parents in future -- stop judging them. You have no right to judge them. You may not like what they did as a parents, then try to do a better job with your own child. But do not judge them. Respect them.  I am sure that there is not only abusive behavior that you grown up with. Didn't you have anything positive at all in your childhood to be thankful for? They gave you a life, it is the most precious thing on the earth. Be thankful for that. Because of them, you are breathing, you are thinking, you are going to yoga classes, etc. learn to love. Not for something, but against anything. [/quote]

This is terrible advice. OP should not feel obligated to forgive her parents for abusing her. [/quote]

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