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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm stumped. Help me out here, when you found or were looking for the one what mattered most?

I'm a good girl, laid back, love to laugh. Travel, have a solid career that isn't all-consuming, educated. Love sex, cook, and can get into any fun pursuit. I struggle to find men that want a real relationship. Most seem to want to party and have fun but not into commitment. Any advice?[/quote]

Are you thin?[/quote]

Ha! Thin, no. In shape, yes. I've fallen into to the I'll-say-anything-to-get her in bed trap. No I don't sleep with men without a commitment. I'm not talking about boyfriend-commitment, I'm talking about marriage.[/quote]

If you don't sleep with anyone outside of marriage, how would the men know/believe that you love sex?[/quote]

I sleep with my boyfriends, but do not hook up randomly guess that wasn't clear.

Something that bothers me is that nearly every guy I've been with and even ones that I haven't been with tell me how lucky someone would be with me that I'm a great catch, etc. The last guy dumped me saying I was too good for him. I don't want to be unapproachable. Maybe I scare off the non serious ones too late in the game.[/quote]

How have you felt about these guys? Were you really into them, or were you kind of lukewarm about them and trying to make it work? I say that because the 'you're too good for me' breakup line is pretty generic and in my experience I've found it to mean that something just isn't clicking for the person, but they can't put their finger on it, so they say that because they just don't know what else to say.
Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, likely means you and these guys aren't as compatible as you think, and they see it before you do.[/quote]

The guy that said that was ultimately right in the sense that he was pretending to be someone he's not. I didn't know until after we broke up and I began to see the real him. That sucked. I fell for the guy I thought he was not knowing what was behind it all. I have a very adaptable personality so I can make friends with virtually anyone. I've found few people - men or women (2) - who are very similar to me. I don't require that in a mate, but maybe that is why I have a though time.[/quote]

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