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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The question was "realizing my husband is the person who betrayed me, how do I feel less traumatized by the experience that my husband's affair partner was a physician, charging other people for her advice on their health and well being."

The answer seems to be that physicians should not be expected to have good character or be trustworthy above anyone one else.  Ewwww.  That just isn't helping.

And to the person who said adultery isn't illegal, it is in my state and still a few others.

I'm also surprised at the negativity here.  I'm really trying to put this behind me but some of it is so intrusive that I can't get it out of my head.  I really thought there would be  more empathy in the community.

Peace.[/quote]

Sex life and professional life are separate. No one is saying you shouldn't feel upset or traumatized, but it wasn't th AP that betrayed you. It was your husband. You can blame the neighbors. You can blame Obama. He's a convenient scapegoat at the moment. It comes down to the fact this is something that happened between you and your husband. Her job has nothing to do with any of it. Take a hard look at your marriage. Distracting yourself with the AP's shoe size, profession, type of car she drives, etc. isn't going to help you move forward. Focus on moving forward, with or without your husband. [/quote]

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