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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, let me tell you a story:

Shortly after my grandfather had married my grandmother, and moved them to a lovely house out in the suburbs (westchester county), he decided to spend one night flirting with on of my GM's friends. At one point the friend perched herself on my GF's lap and giggled.

My GM shot dagger glares at both, and they chortled about it, my GF calling her a spoil sport.

Well, they went home from the party.

The next morning, GM had ever bag of her's packed and waiting in the kitchen.  When my GF came down to make breakfast, he saw my GM waiting.  GM calmly informed him that a cab was on the way, that she had already contacted her old apartment building in Manhattan and she would be moving back in.  And she had contacted her former boss, and would be resuming her job as a secretary.

My GM says she will never forget the look on GF's face.  He literally got down on his knees in the kitchen and begged her to stay.  After some back and forth, she relented.  But my GF called every 15 minutes that day to make sure she hadn't changed her mind and decided to leave.

What my GM always has told me is you need to set the pace in your relationship.  My GF learned quickly what was not acceptable to my GM, and he never flirted with another woman (in front of her, at least) again.

And this was not an easy decision for her.  GF came from a wealthy family, GM was an orphan from the state of Georgia who moved to NYC and worked as a secretary.  But even though she had no family to fall back on, and it would mean moving out of a big house in Westchester to a small apartment, she knew her worth, and would not expect less.

When you show someone that you value yourself and will not put up with trash, you force them to show their true colors.  My GF was a very powerful man, but he was never too proud to show my GM he loved her.  They didnt have a perfect relationship, as "no man is perfect," as my GM says.  But some behaviors are simply unacceptable.  
And in my opinion, callously disregarding the sadness of your pregnant wife, and screaming at her, is totally unacceptable. [/quote]

Story gives me chills and inspiration. Thank you pp. [/quote]

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