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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, i really feel bad for you. I am in the same boat. And although, some of the nastier posters are somewhat right in certain point IT DOES NOT JUSTIFY LYING! Liars of all kinds (no matter the reason) are cowards. We lie because we are afraid. When grown men lie, they act cowardly. This is the difference between a child and an adult. An adult should be able to handle the truth and consequences to mistakes. For those who are embezzling money, hiding places they went etc. Why blame the other partner? Blame themselves for not being honest and putting their foot down or negotiating it out with their partners. Lying is like cheating. Its an easy way out. An easy way to get what you want w/o wing honest to their partner. Now, I do agree there were other issues there BEFORE lying started probably. THose were not addressed, and now he has resorted to lying.

Unfortunatley, I think its time for you to leave. Lying is again like cheating. No matter how much therapy, whatever happens now, you will never 100% trust him. Without trust, there is not backbone in the relationship. You will never get over this completley. Even if he does "change", i fear the lying will happen again at some point. He is a coward. THere will be another time in the future where he wont want to face the truth and he will lie again. Move on and find someone stronger. Good luck[/quote]

^^This is a perfect example of how abusive people treat their partners. There's a lot of judgment and victim crying, but no responsibility taken. [/quote]

Lol.  Are you having a laugh?

Plenty of victims can recognize that they are being treated poorly- sometimes it is one sided. Acknowledging that does not magically turn them from victim into abuser.[/quote]

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