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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up without guns and don't see the need, although I'm not opposed to them or anything. Just not in my house, I guess. But DH is [b]getting more and more into them, buying without telling me[/b] and such. His wish list for Christmas includes [b]laser sights and things like that[/b]. We have a young child and he thinks it's [b]fine to introduce guns at a young age[/b]. I'm just no ok with all this and yes it's [b]new since marriage[/b]. Anyone else experienced this?[/quote]

21:28 again. All that I said in that post aside--there are a lot of red flags in your post for me. My DH was always this way, and that's how my advice there is aimed...but you are in a different boat.  Yours is changing before your eyes. WHY?  You need to know why. What happened to change him?  Is it a new friend influencing him? Is his personality changing in other ways? As I said, I have a background in mental health, and this worries me from that angle.

I do NOT recommend you say to him that you think his newfound interest in guns is the result of a brain tumor or declining mental health. :)  But it could be, and if it is, there will be other signs, other changes in your marriage and relationship, and you can address those separately from the gun stuff.[/quote]

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