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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't do it. Your kid sure won't remember her, and your mother will be dead shortly after anyway. New babies put a LOT of strain on a marriage. You want to have a baby, money stress, plus the stress of your mother dying all at the same time?  Thats stupid. Have a baby when you're ready to have one. When YOU are ready. Not when your mom is ready. [/quote]

This. OP, you said your DH does not want to have the baby now. That carries a lot of weight in this decision. Rushing to have a baby isn't going to solve anything down the road.[/quote]

Yes, all of this.[/quote]

And, as others have said: the title is off.

This is a terrible reason to have a child.  I know two girls who did this (unwed) because their mother was dying of breast cancer.  One girl's life was derailed and never got back on track, and the other took a good five or six years to recover.

My paternal grandmother died when I was 3 - I have zero memory of her.  So, this isn't for you, your child or your husband..it's for your mom.  I don't want to be cold, but life is for the living.  You three will be living with the consequences, for a long time.  [/quote]

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