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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you are kidding yourself by trying to be happy *for* somebody when you are not happy yourself. It doesn't work that way. This is what adversity does to you. It leaves you alone. You should congratulate your more fortunate relatives and be done with them. From now on your lives will move in completely different directions, and your relationship will never be the same. (Unless you conceive and give birth shortly after you SIL.)[/quote] Excuse me, but not everyone is like this. What you describe sounds like major depression that needs to be treated by a mental health professional. I have struggled with secondary infertility and have been able to be truly happy for many of my friends who've gone on to have their second children. Just because I can't doesn't mean I can't be happy for them. [/quote] Secondary infertility isn't remotely the same as primary infertility. I'm sure it sucks, but you aren't childless. [/quote]
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