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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow - I feel like this is my DH - thanks for sharing.  It's interesting that many DHs who find negativity in a lot have some history of depression.

I was doing laundry the other day and unrolling the sleeves of DHs shirts and said, "hey hon, when you put your shirts in the wash would you mind unrolling the sleeves? " (knowing him, I tried to phrase it as simply, nicely and non-nagging as possible and this is not something I've asked before, pre-thinking how I phrase things is a huge must).  It was a huge blow-up.  We were having a fine day prior to that with no issues so it wasn't like we were already on eggshells and then that.  
Am I asking all wrong?  Interested in thoughts!  Often I just do stuff myself because it's not worth figuring out how to get some help without offending him.[/quote]

This is my DH also. WTH to the posters suggesting an affair. I never thought of that before. I just thought he didn't like "being told what to do". It drives me crazy. He's worse than our teenager and I have no idea what to do about it.[/quote]

PP on this, yes it drives me crazy too.  I have no idea what to do about either, it's a vicious circle[/quote]

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