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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wife will "deep clean" an area but fail to do basic maintenance in another. Glad the upper corner of the living room is now dust free, but that time would have been better spent cleaning her lunch dishes off the dining room table and moving the food container trash 6 feet from the kitchen counter to the trash can. [/quote]

I'm a DH and you sound like an asshole. So, in general why not try a positive affirmation vs. pointing out what could have been done. If you notice the shit that's not done - then do it. It all has to get done.[/quote]

I don't point out anything. I just think it.

Maybe it's just difference of opinion, but there is "stuff that needs to get done" and "stuff you need to do for yourself." For example, I'll vacuum floors because that falls into the "stuff that needs to get done" category, but I'm not going to wipe her ass for her after she takes a dump. Throwing away garbage you've put on the counter and picking up dishes after you eat lunch by yourself seems to fall in the latter category.

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You do realize that this just serves to reaffirm the asshole assessment...correct ?[/quote]

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