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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I hate to say it, but I have stopped trying.  My house if falling down around me, but if I am the only one who cares, I quit.  I don't have the energy to do it alone.  And when I have taken my precious time (I am chief income earner) to take time of work to make it happen, it's undone in a matter of hours or DH fishes stuff out of the donations or trash and puts them back (mostly on the counter or stuffs them in a cupboard).

Good luck to you.[/quote]

OP here OMFG mine does this too! It drives me bat shit crazy! I throw out broken toys in recyclables and he brings them back in " did you mean to throw this out?" 
I de clutter the homework area "you are not keeping those school papers?!?"

Yet he bitches that our house is a mess 24/7. Guess what! I have 4 kids here all day long and he works out of the house. We are here 24/7 and shit gets messed up 24/7

And I am a messy person my nature, this shit is hard for me to keep under control (it's usually out of control)

Anyway vent over thanks for listening!

And yes I am a SAH pp, but thanks for reiterating my job description ..l..[/quote]

I am a WOHM but it's apparently part of my job description, too.  It's not like the work gets divided evenly when both people WOH. That would be lovely!

My DH cleans the closet but pulling everything out and leaving it outside the closet.  Yes, the closet looks nice, but where does all the stuff go now? [/quote]

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