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Again, I do not expect for anyone to just cut off ALL communication with her. If that was the impression I left or have been leaving, it is incorrect. I was just wondering if it's normal for family to ALWAYS start a conversation about her at a family gathering when are all around hanging out, and I'm supposed to be in a conversation talking about how they miss her and wanting to know everything going on with her and how happy they are about it.

If I didn't have my big girl panties on, I would be throwing temper tantrums, having an attitude, leaving the room when she's brought up and taking it out on my boyfriend. Precisely zero of those things have taken place.[/quote]

OP, you sound really bitter and angry. You reply to the advice here you have asked for in super defensive ways. If you are coming across this harsh and strong over a message board, what are you putting out in real life in your tone or nonverbal communication?

You feel jealous of the ex and maybe you should be. But he's with you and not her. Remember that. So either you say something to your BF and his family that it bothers you or you let it go and move on. Sure, it may feel weird and unsettling to you, but that may just be you. The advice you have received here has answered your question, hasn't it? Move the hell along.[/quote]

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