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[quote=Anonymous]Can't say what the motives may be in asking about the ex.  I would say though it's better that situation than the family talking about the ex like a dog.  I had a family member that divorced and you would have thought the ex was the devil incarnate.  Meanwhile, my relative cheated on his ex, left her to do all the heavy lifting with their disabled son, and left her to do most of the discipline/child rearing with the other son.  I'm not saying that the ex may not have had her own issues but my relative was far from perfect.  If the mom of your SO thinks her son can do no wrong and can't show respect for the mother of her grandchild, get very worried.

As long as they are making the effort with you to get to know you and are not excluding you from invitations/gatherings I would take it as a positive sign that they remain superficially involved with ex and your SO has boundaries with his family that they are not I intimately involved in what we t on in his old relationship.[/quote]

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