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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you're in a pickle. He may have feeling for you and he may not. The problem here is neither of you is acting on it (not that I am a fan of cheating), and, if after four years of intense flirting with ZERO happening, then it is probably not going to happen. He's not going to leave his wife for you, he's not going to have an affair with you, he's not going to be with you.

He may be an awesome guy (and the fact he hasn't cheated is helpful for that), but this is an unhealthy scenario because it is extremely one-sided and nothing positive or fruitful or next step is ever going to come out of this.

As hard as it may be, you need to channel your energies and interests elsewhere. Think about it: would you rather get over it and mourn for a bit, and then go out and meet someone fabulous, or spend another four years pining over someone who is unattainable, no matter how delicious he is to you. Don't miss out on your life and the love you deserve because of this.

If you're at the potential voodoo stage, then you might believe in something of a higher power. If that is the case, think about this -- you often can reap what you sow. So if you expend energy, essentially, wishing (or trying, which one day it may get to) to break up his marriage, you're asking the universe for something negative and that may fall back on you. Put your time and effort into something positive - someone attainable and available -- and you'll be much happier and healthier, and not have this bad karma following you around. [/quote]

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