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[quote=Anonymous]OP, think about this. For your guy's kid or family, it may be weird if everyone is together and his/her mom [i]isn't[/i] mentioned. Just because the parents are no longer together and she is not physically there with the family for the holiday or BBQ or whatever, she still exists and it is still natural for the family to have interest or curiosity in what she is up to, and also ensure that your guy's kid knows that the family cares about her and is asking after her.

My stepdaughter lives in another state FT with her mom. We get her summers and holidays. Especially during big holidays, I make sure to ask about her mom (what are mom and stepdad doing for Thanksgiving, etc.) so she knows it's OK to miss her on those holidays or talk about her in general. I weave it into other conversations, too (e.g., when at the mall, asking if mom would be OK with her wearing ripped jeans or, when reviewing grades, what did mom say about your chem test grade). This shows her that we're all co-parenting and interested in her development.

Try to think of it as what everyone is doing for the sake of the kid and not that it is some judgment on you. 
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