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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for taking the time to respond. She's already tried to poison my relationship with him. It was really bad for a while and he even knows about some of the lies she told to do it, and somehow he still thinks of their relationship as based in mutual honesty and says so. She's moved on to destroying his relationship with other family members now. It's so heartbreaking. Right now I feel like if he reaches out, I'm just a listener, and I try to be supportive without pointing out any of the things I see her doing, but how long can that go on? She's going to break him until he's just a shell. And he's letting her.[/quote] Instead of just being a listener or offering advice, can you ask him questions. Start easy and eventually get to more probing questions. When he complains about her, you can ask "why do you think she does that?", "How does that make you feel?", etc...[/quote]
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