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[quote=Anonymous]Op again.

Some of what others are saying is too familiar. He was obsessed with knowing how many men I had sex with - including oral. He made it in a joking way but I knew he was serious after several times bringing it up. He's just very needy and gets upset when I can't talk to him at the moment. He automatically assumes something is wrong. The other day I read a quote about loving who you are. He totally turned if around and started talking about how many people are more successful and attractive but you shouldn't leave your spouse because of it. He has this fear that I'm going to leave him for a better man.

The other issue is sex related. I noticed he isn't the missionary type. Many men aren't but usually vanilla sex is first until a relationship is established. As soon as we had sex it was rough. It's never passionate. It's more like a " wam bam, thank you, mam". He's a very selfish lover. If I bring up any subject or topic and feels he's being criticized, he lashes out and purposely says hurtful comments to upset me. He's done this twice. His excuse is always " you hurt me so I'm hurting you". I'm not hurting him. I'm talking as an adult trying to resolve issues.

It's very upsetting. [/quote]

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