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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]None of the above PP. I do love my job and I do have to gladhand and network on occasion, but I am always there for my kids. DW has simply lost it mentally and emotionally. She needs therapy and will not get it. She has sought to fill the enormous emotional holes in her life with extramarital affairs. I long ago told her that I realize that this is why she does it and needs help, and even told her they do not bother me so much, but the abuse of me combined with her lying and cheating put me over the edge. You can sit there in judgement of me all you want, but I have been about as compassionate as I can be under the circumstances. It is time to split. I harbor no illusions that this will be amicable, as she has an overinflated sense of entitlement. I want a custoday arrangment that is in the best interest of my children and a financial arrangement that let's me move on with my life and provide for my children's future. That is all. If she ends up alone, I am sorry for that but it is time I started to look out for my own health and interests.[/quote]

NP here. If you want to get divorced, get divorced.

But if you want to truly move on with your life, you need to take responsibility for whatever you did to destroy the relationship. All of your posts here are full of blaming here, and not a word that you have ever done anything to contribute to the end of your marriage. I guarantee that you did. You may think that your actions pale in comparison to hers, but you share fault in this and if you ever want to be healthy, you need to own your faults. You say you have been compassionate, but you show none of that here. All you show here is a strange attachment to being seen as a victim and making sure the world knows your wife is evil and abusive.

I speak from experience. I only got healthy once I owned my role in my dysfunctional relationship. If you ever want another relationship, you will need to close this one and accept there are four sides to every story and being focussed on your victimhood is limiting to every relationship you have or will have, including the ones you have with your children.

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