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[quote=Anonymous]My bro, sis and I were spanked by mom and they were spanked by their dad (my step-dad).  Mom would go open hand generally, but if it was something really bad she would break out her dad's frat paddle (or a belt, hairbrush, wooden spoon).  I don't remember being spanked very many times, but my little brother and sister got spanked pretty frequently.  We also got our mouths washed out with dish soap for swearing.

I'm 31 and I grew up in CT.

My DD is only 7 months old, so DH (who was also spanked once in a while) and I haven't confronted the to-spank-or-not-to-spank dilemma yet, but when I read these threads I'm surprised that so many people have such a strong reaction to hearing that people got spanked.  Maybe it's a temperament thing, but my DH and I both come from families of three children.  All six of us were spanked at some point or another.  All six of us excelled in school, including college and grad school (where career appropriate), none of us ever got into any serious trouble, and most importantly, we all feel that we grew up in warm, safe, loving homes with parents who cared about us deeply and made huge sacrifices so that we could get to where we all are now.  I'm not saying everyone should spank, or even that spanking is good or right, but I do think it's a little dramatic to act like every kid that was spanked is a trauma victim.  [/quote]

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