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Reply to "Husband Neglectful In Front Of Children. Advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think both parties are culpable here. It sounds like OPs husband is overwhelmed and probably feels resentful for reasons OP doesn't understand. Therapy will definitely help with communication, but both parties need to work together. OP - this doesn't sound like a isolated incident, but probably has been building up. You're hormonal and pregnant. You probably haven't been your usual self yet either. And I agree that it probably wasn't too prudent to have another baby with a man who is this volatile and has anger issues (storms out of therapy and won't go back ... How babyish!). Agree that you need to get back to counseling. Having a second baby when your first is still so young will make things doubly stressful. Whether DH wanted the second baby or not doesn't matter because baby is in the picture now. OP, you and your DH need to sit down for weekly therapy and really commit to getting through this. If not, then wait until your maternity leave is up or your kids are in school and leave. I would work on a long term exit plan if he cannot even commit to counseling. [/quote]
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