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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hear what many of you are saying about laughing it off. I have a good sense of humor and joke just as much as he. I'm a little crude with my jokes too. The problem I have is this isn't the first time he has made very bad jokes at my expense. I've told him the other three times that I didn't like it and expressed how it hurt my feelings. He again did it and that prompted me to break up with him. I feel he doesn't care about my feelings if he repeatedly does it. We've made jokes and fun of each other but he crosses the line with things. I've noticed he does this with his friends and family too. [/quote]

I'm the PP saying you have a thin skin.  This sounds more to the point.  Sounds like this is more his personality style and if he does it to his friends and family it probably won't go away.  You could focus the discussion with him on this generally if you want to work on it with him.  It's not like you don't have time.  But if he is making you feel bad on purpose, and won't listen to your feelings and needs, it's probably not the greatest relationship for you long term.  One joke is not the problem.  It's more tht he doesn't seem to see you fully as a person--he's objectifying you and ignoring your feelings.  That said, some men forget things women ask for, like please don't do X anymore, and have to be reminded.  LIke the PP said, look at the big picture.[/quote]

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