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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How often do you take off work to spend the day with her?

How often do you go on dates without the children? How often do you actually plan the date and daycare?

How often do you go on vacation without the children?

How often does she go away with friends without you or the children?

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Oh, fuck this. It's standard issue advice for husbands of wives who have unilaterally decided that because they are mothers there is no longer any reasonable expectation that they'll be wives as well. And it doesn't work. It's gaslighting to make him think he's at fault for the poor treatment he's receiving and, even more, kiss her ass. Talk about victim blaming. [/quote]

No, it's called being a mature adult and trying to be empathetic and make things work.  You sound like a psycho with a bone to pick....[/quote]

It's more a chicken/egg situation. Which happened first. She became his mom 1st... not his lover, then she became a cold roommate.

When they say marriage is work this is what they mean. It goes both ways, if this was the wife posting I would ask the EXACT SAME QUESTION.

If he has done NOTHING for her since " he put a ring on it" then she is just not bonded anymore.

He is not a VICTIM. She doesn't "hold his hand". [/quote]

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