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Reply to "When the kids go to college, I'm out of this loveless and affectionless marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]I waited until my oldest went to college (three younger ones). He got VERY upset - angry, hurt, guilty, etc. All the kids it turned out, knew we were miserable. When we split, they were like "Thank god! About time!" We're not religious and it came out one had been praying every night that we'd divorce. The oldest felt terrible that I'd been waiting for him to hit college. Told me had he known, he'd have gone to summer school and tried to skip a grade. I wish I hadn't waited. We were able to split before we really hated each other and instead did it when we agreed we were both miserable and there wasn't any hope of it getting better. Aside from a month or two of frustration in learning the new visitation schedule, the split went smoothly. The kids really like seeing us able to celebrate their birthdays together and be able to talk to each other nicely. [/quote]
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