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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 3 weeks postpartum and DH keeps making upsetting comments about me not losing weight. I am a petite woman ( pre-pregnancy, 5'2, 110lbs) and I gained 33lbs during pregnancy. With breastfeeding and eating healthy, I managed to lose 20 something lbs already. I haven't been able to get rid of these last 10lbs but I'm not too worried and I'm more focused on motherhood. I was all belly but 10lbs does look like more for a person with my frame. DH likes very petite women and has said things like

" do you fit into your old clothes, yet?" 
" do you remember when you were skinny enough to fit into your bikini and lingerie I like? Those were great memories"

When I tell him I do want to get back to my normal weight but its been 3 weeks and I have more important matters. When he can see I'm upset, he will throw in line " it will make you feel your best and more confident. I just want you to be happy and feel you look good". It frustrates me to no end. I'm already feeling frumpy and unattractive. I don't need my husband, who should be my #1 supporter, harping on me. I'm at a loss here. [/quote]

Is your husband a supermodel?  No?  Then he needs to kindly shut the fuck up.  What a pig.   You should make comments back, like, "Wow, that guy has a six pack.  That would look great on you, mmmmm.  Love a man with ripped arms."[/quote]

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