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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you've been extremely specific about identifying details about your husband, his ex, the age of your stepkids, and their locations. Anyone who knows even a little about you or him or them could put this together. I hope you're fudging some of the details and/or that no one who knows your families on DCUM. Otherwise you're airing a lot of dirty laundry. As for the other stuff, IMO it sounds for the most part like you are all three doing your best in a difficult situation. Be fair; she's a single mom (I presume from your posts) with three kids while at least you and your DH have the both of you. That said, I agree it's lame to blame your husband for updos, etc. and that your wording and reasoning were way better. And not cool on sending the kids to you sick/infested - no excuse there. As for her half of the plane tickets, have you tried just deducting it from other payments and explaining why, very matter-of-factly? "Dear Jane, enclosed is a check for the 50% of Junior's braces and soccer camp, less the $750 you owe us for the shared expense of their flights last month. Best, John."[/quote]
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