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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean close friends who genuinely like me, but don't have my best interests at heart at times when I really need them to (like refusing to point out how terrible a boyfriend is even though they saw things that I didn't); who are secretly competitive; who sometimes ignore me when things in their life are going great and my life isn't; who judge my choices. Of course, I have very low self-esteem even though I appear confident, so who knows if I attract these kinds of people. Maybe I'm just like them too. I'm just sad.[/quote] It's not fair to complain in the same breath about friends who judge your choices and friends who don't tell you when you are making the wrong choice (the terrible BF). Some people want their friends to support their choices unconditionally, some want honest advice. Expecting your friends to know when you want one and when you want the other is a bit hard on them. [/quote]
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