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The OP could ask 100 different persons for their opinion and get 100 completely different answers. The fact is, there are no guarantees when it comes to relationships. If the OP had a satisfying marriage for 99 years, something could happen in the 100th year that warrants a divorce, and the same holds true for any long-term relationship with this other person. So, instead of searching for guarantees, the OP should just do whatever makes happy: stay in the marriage; leave the marriage for this other person; or leave and stay single. Whichever of the three makes you happy then go for it!

The minute you begin doing a cost-benefit analysis or putting a price-tag on divorce, is the minute you start limiting your happiness to money, and holding yourself hostage emotionally. Equally, if you today were to get the 100% guarantee that your relationship with this other person will last, before you make the decision divorce and be with this person, then it means you were never willing to take the risk blindly with this person and could mean that this person only means 'so much' to you.

Choice is yours  :!:  [/quote]

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