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Reply to "What does my DH want from me?? A hall pass? Blessing?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm not really sure what your aims are in posting on this forum. Are you looking for advice? You have received a lot of it. Are you looking to have a conversation, as if with a friend? You are getting a lot of that as well. Please think about how your real life friends would respond to the things you've posted here. Consider how YOU would respond if your friend or sister told you that they were experiencing the things you are experiencing. You are at a pivot point where you need to decide whether you want to be in this marriage or not. Your husband needs to stop taking his secretary on dates. It's not appropriate. Everyone has told you it's not appropriate. The only person who thinks it's appropriate is your husband. If he is serious about fixing your marriage, he will take your concerns seriously. Based on the fact that he has not taken those concerns seriously thus far, I do not believe that he is serious about wanting to fix things, which leaves you in a place of figuring out what to do next. What I would be doing in your position is filing for divorce and thinking about how to tell your children about it. Your youngest child will take it the hardest, and waiting until that child starts college is not going to make it easier on him/her.[/quote]
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