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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]See, he claims that people do this (the baby and isolation thing) all the time and I don't have any to be depressed about.  He sneered when I mentioned very early on that lack of a support system was proven to be a cause of PPD.  I really don't understand the purpose in him insisting I don't have PPD, but I'm just a bitch.  Is mental illness that uncomfortable for people that they'd rather see the person they married as the face of evil?  Because he's called me evil before too.[/quote]

Your husband doesn't live in reality. Does he have surveillance cameras in all he homes of the people who are "coping" with a new baby and isolation perfectly? Because it would paint a very different picture than the one he is seeing. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know exactly how you feel in almost every way. He is supposed to be your support system too and he is failing.  If you are offering him explanations for your unhappiness (which in most cases causes angry behavior toward the spouse) and he is rejecting them without contemplation and focusing on one sole theory (which is probably untrue or why would he have married you?), I cannot see how you can live with that. That is not someone who seems to be able to look inward.

I've never posted this many responses on a thread before (normally a lurker) but this just makes my blood boil.[/quote]

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