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[quote=Anonymous]Have you thought through all the likely outcomes of each of these actions and weighed their pros and cons?

If you bring it up with your dad and he denies it. He might be humiliated and offended that you would think he would do something like that. Or, you maybe you would continue believing in your own mind that he is having an affair even though he denies it and now in addition to being a cheater, he's a liar. Do you feel any better?

If you bring it up with your dad and he admits it and says that your mom already knows about it. How do you feel now? Do you believe him? Do you have a humiliating conversation with your mother about how she is letter her husband see someone outside their marriage?

Or, maybe he admits it and agrees to tell your mother and as a result they decide to get divorced or separate. Do you really want your parents to separate an be alone in their twilight years?

There are all kinds of scenarios here and none of them look like they will make anyone happier or lessen any of your anguish. If it were me, I'd stay out of it. [/quote]

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