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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In a nutshell: marriage of 8years, one child together. Unfortunately some of the traits my H displayed and some of his actions made me completely out of love or affection for him. I don't nag, don't criticize, I just kind of avoid him. We still have sex and do talk about our day,
But honestly for me it's one more chore. Of course he senses this and talks about separation. I would have to move cross country If we went through with it, taking the kid with me most likely. 
I think it's childish of him to want to separate on these grounds.[/quote]

Riiiight...you've up front admitted you've checked out of the marriage in all but name, but you don't think he should want a divorce.  How do you even have sex when you have no affection and prefer to avoid him? Oh, that's right, you just kind of look at the ceiling, think of England, and let him masturbate with your body!

That's not even remotely childish on his part...it's actually pretty mature and grown up.  Not having an affair, and instead having an honest, adult conversation about the fact that your marriage is pretty much over.  He might be a total ass, and have given you very good reasons for being out of love with him but he is being the adult here.[/quote]

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