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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Flexibility is very very helpful for at least one parent. But I would have found it [b]extremely hard to leave my sweet baby and toddler with a nanny and then day care if I did not think that I was contributing to something meaningful and interesting at work[/b]. Sometimes you can find non boring and flexible in the same package, do it doesn't hurt to keep your eyes open.[/quote] I'm the one in the family with the crazy flexible job - 100% telecommute, and as long as I meet deadlines, I can work whenever. For the first year and a half it was IDEAL. However, it's an absolutely boring, no brainer job. Occasionally I'll get something interesting, but for the most part, I could probably do my job drunk and have all be well (not that I would, but as an indicator of the brainpower I need). It's starting to get to me. The salary is useful, and the benefits are great, but knowing that I"m leaving my kids just to "have a job" is really starting to wear me down. I think I'll keep the job through the holidays specifically for the flexibility, but come January, I'm actually going to look for a less flexible job that's interesting, or seriously consider being a SAHM. What I'm doing now is just hanging out on a hamster wheel. NOT what I busted my a$$ through grad school to do, and not worth missing my kids for. Just another side of the argument. Maybe if I worked at an office with the same job or if I had the 100% telecommute with a more interesting job it would be different. Bottom line, my advice is that before you get a boring job "for the good of the FAMILY", make sure you're not going to drive yourself crazy in the process! [/quote]
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