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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old is the baby? Or is she still pregnant?

I had a hard time mustering up sex drive during first trimester because I had read too many stories about sex causing miscarriage. I don't think that's accurate, but it was hard to stop thinking about it.

Post-birth, it took a good 4 months before it didn't hurt like hell to have sex.

Try being affectionate without making sex be a goal -- even tell her, I'm not looking for actual sex, just want to be physically affectionate.[/quote]

We are in the first trimester.  No morning sickness, and although she complains she is the heaviest she has ever been in her entire life, none of that can be baby weight at this point.

My wife is chubby bordering on plain old fat.  She has been since I met her (though she is heavier now).  I was attracted to her then and am now, but she really doesn't like herself or her weight and that creeps into everything.  I realize the baby will mean more weight, and I'm understanding.  I find sexual enthusiasm much more exciting than a perfect body.  The enthusiasm is lacking...10000% lacking.

I'm hoping that a year down the road, after she recovers from the pregnancy and childbirth, that the enthusiasm returns.  I still kind of hope the pregnancy hormones kick in and give her drive a goose.  [/quote]

In your wife's defense I am also in my first trimester and let me tell you. I am a thin person but between the bloating from the progesterone, bloating from constipation, and bloating from gas alone - I do not doubt it if she looks and feels bigger. I do, and I KNOW it's not baby. All that said, I don't exactly feel like a tiger in the sheets. I feel disgusting - so please don't take it personal if she isn't in the mood right now. I had sex with my husband last night to appease him but at least acted enthusiastic about it. She could work on her acting skills a little.

She sounds like maybe she has weight and image issues though and that's only going to get worse. [/quote]

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