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Reply to "S/O - anyone ever reversed a non-physical marriage?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean no snarkyness by this question. Can you describe or explain what it is like to be married and sleep in the same bed, share the same breakfast and dinner table, and then not have sex? Don't you even accidentally touch or brush up against each other, and get aroused? I would think that sleeping in the same bed you would be turned on enough? Or is it that you don't like your spouse anymore ore you feel contempt toward them? [/quote] DH and I are in our late and mid 50s, respectively. We don't touch each other much, and I rarely feel aroused (by him). When I go to bed, I am TIRED. When I was younger I was a very sexual person, but these days I feel very little in that regard. I don't like him much most days, and yes, i feel some contempt. He is not kind to me. He has a chronic illness that gives him physical characteristics that make him very unappealing, physically. He could, but chooses not to do something about some of them. So there we are.[/quote]
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