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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a guy in a low sex marriage, I wouldn't mind rebuilding romance and intimacy as a precursor to restoring our sex life. I just have absolutely no faith that it will. I feel like I've been a good rule follower, done everything that I was supposed to do - I work hard, I'm always respectful, I'm an active and goo dad -  and yet my sex life still deteriorated. Meanwhile, it seems like there are plenty of guys who don't do half of what I do for their families who are getting laid plenty. So, I feel like a chump. Like date nights and other romantic gestures are just one more hoop I'll jump through with no improvement. Lack of trust, basically. [/quote]

You are in the cliché situation of being cheated on. [b]Being a good dad and husband (so you say, anyway) but, for whatever reason, she doesn't view you as the exciting, anamialistic, passionate partner. That's the other guy.  
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Not saying this is what's going on, but it sure follows that pattern. And if you say, "Trust me, she would not be able to find the time to do that," you've simply *continued* the pattern, rather than state a good counter-example. [/quote]

Let's face it, and no matter how unpopular this opinion is, both men and women often look at members of the opposite sex as either 1)  good person, good qualities, not much excitement, good partner or 2)  sexy, exciting, unpredictable, uninhibited.  The problem is, each type of person's traits is mostly mutually exclusive of the other.[/quote]

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