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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  If you are really unhappy in your marriage, tell your spouse, begin divorce proceedings.  When you are actually free you can take up with your boss.  The world will have a lot more respect for you if you do things that way.[/quote]

OP here again. I don't understand why it would be morally more laudable if I begin an affair with my married boss as an already divorced (free) woman. He would still be married and my boss.

[b]Again, DH has affairs as well (preferably with married women), with no intention of divorcing me[/b].[/quote]

With this information, I say go ahead and have an affair, but DON'T, I repeat DON'T do it with your boss!!!

Eventually he (or you) will move onto a new affair. It will become terribly awkward and will be a complete mess.  Plus when wifey finds out, believe me you, you will be on the chopping block. He will drop you like a hot potato and you will be out the door. You will end up a spectacle, will be considered the office (or worse industry) harlot and he will get off Scott free (men always do, women are whores, men make mistakes).  There is a woman in my industry that recently had an affair with an executive at a large company. The wife has made it her mission in life to smear the OW. There is currently a blog dedicated to their affair and exposing it. She is a complete embarrassment to herself. Everybody reads it, everybody gossips about it, it is a complete carnival of misery to behold. The OW is dumped by both her AP and her DH.

Go find someone outside of work.[/quote]

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