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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No way this is real. OP sounds incredibly stupid 
[b]You're already fucking up your kids lives.[/b]  Some people should not be parents[/quote]

OP here. Huh? Why exactly am I fucking up my kids' lives? Because I like my kind and considerate boss? My husband has had affairs for a while, and the kids haven't noticed it.

And now you are insulting me that I should not be a parent?[/quote]

Don't listen to the poster above.  You are just being very honest with yourself and asking the question. I think you are mostly working this out in your head and it's easier to write it down.  I don't think your having (or not having) an affair) would reflect on your parenting skills at all.  There are pragmatic reasons for not going through with this.  I agree with a guy who said think about the 7 year plan vs. the 7 year plan. I would get a divorce though, whatever else happens.[/quote]

I think this pp is right - you're mulling this over and actually having fun considering your options. That's why you wrote earlier that some of posters' points made you "smile." This whole thread is a turn on for you. And maybe that's why it's a turn off for a number of us who are responding. Personally, although I'm revolted by your comments, I feel bad for you. It sounds like you're in a sad marriage and a sad place in your life. For your children's sake, I hope you choose a healthy option like counseling.[/quote]

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