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First, you need to separate the content from the delivery of the message. So many people lump the two together and automatically reject the message.

1. He may be still invested and committed, but has really high expectations from you and from himself on the fitness front, and is a control freak. In that case, you need to read him the riot act for couching his message in such boorish terms and for withholding physical affection for 6 months, which is a total no-no in a marriage. You can also look into training because your non-fat weight is meaningless if it's all wobbly.

2. He may be doing the classic move of faulting you for his issues (adultery, mid-life crisis, sex issues, etc), in which case you should probably be dragging him to therapy and consulting a lawyer.

The most important thing to get through to him is that it is unacceptable to use emotional blackmail like he is doing now. My husband tried that, for a different reason, and we nearly got divorced over it. Hope you find a way, OP!
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