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[quote=Anonymous]It's okay to disappoint people. You're not doing it to hurt them, but to do something you want. I walked myself down the aisle. I wasn't that close with my dad at the time and I think he did think it could be a reconciliation. But, after I got married, the more I met him where he could be, the more he met me. I also disappointed my husband when I didn't take his name. I wasn't doing it to hurt him, but to be true to myself. There's a difference. When you can give something, or be willing to compromise, do it. But, if not, ask people to meet you where you are. I sometimes think back and wonder what would have happened had I taken my husband's name for his sake. He doesn't seem to have any lingering hurt (we've got bigger problems now), and maybe even appreciates me being true to myself. I've never regretted owing my truth. [/quote]
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