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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's see what are the options here...

A) - confront the husband and tell him to cut the cord; could work but in all likelihood will just pose a problem and cause a rift in your friendship.
Scratch that one.

B) - confront the husband's mother and tell her to back off; again, could work but in all likelihood will just pose a problem and cause a rift in your friendship.
Scratch that one.

C) - express your concerns with your friend; sounds like you already did this and sounds like she is already aware of the problem in her relationship sooooooooo...
Sounds like only remaining option is

D) Butt out.  You yourself said he's not abusive or neglectful or controlling or a bad guy - [b]he just has some maturing to do; something you could try as well.  Hard as it may be to accept your best friend is now someone's husband which sadly means you don't get to intrude upon every facet of her relationship anymore.  It's HIS job to ensure her happiness now not yours and while he may be bumbling at the moment as he is still her husband so respect his right to get it right and butt out.[/quote][/b]

ahh i was waiting for you, official obnoxious person.

dont think it's intruding on someone's relationship when they are asking you for advice and calling you upset.

it was never my job to ensure her, or anyone's happiness.

was simply asking if anyone else has felt this way or could relate.

have a lovely day![/quote]

Someone gave you honest, good advice.  You just didn't want to hear it.  You sound like you somehow who gets off on meddling in your friend's affairs.  Get over or get therapy for yourself to [b]determine why you care so much.  [/quote][/b]

Uh I care so much bc I am interested in how my best friend for almost 20 yrs feels? Didn't realize that's something for which I need to seek therapy.[/quote]

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