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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marry the person you love and cannot imagine life without.

Everything else is settling or business transaction - and eventually there can be no true happiness in such situations for either party.[/quote]

I agree with this.

I wanted to have kids with my husband because he was my best friend and I wanted to share the experience with him.  I didn't see him as a vehicle to having kids.  He and I existed before the kids and we will exist after the kids have left our home and have their own lives.  He's still my favorite person to be with after 10+ years together.

If you want kids THAT badly, do it on your own.  I understand that you had the dream of "a family" and achieving that family in a certain way...but you're already not going to achieve that dream.  Just change your definition of a family or change your idea of how you get there.

What if you have a baby on your own and when the baby is young, you meet the love of your life and he has children already too?  That would be a family.  Open yourself up to all the possibilities life still has in front of you if you don't settle.[/quote]

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