Reply to growing up in a house with a lot of yelling

Forum Index » Family Relationships

Reply to "growing up in a house with a lot of yelling"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I grew up in a yelling household and I don't really mind it.  (?)  Shrug.  I am kind of a yeller too and don't really rein myself in, b/c I don't really feel I was that affected by it on the other end, when I was a child?

It bothers me MORE when people do NOT get their emotions out and just keep a situation bottled in.  I think it's better to deal with a situation, get over it, and move on.  It bothers me in my DH's family when everyone is passive-aggressive and never raises an issue directly.  But it's absolutely there, and everyone knows it, and for the life of me, I cannot figure out the dynamic where no one will do anything about it.   It REALLY makes me uncomfortable.  I feel like I walk around keeping my lips closed and I feel words just ready to spill out of my mouth, b/c I am soo unused to this dynamic.[/quote]

Same here.  I was yelled at all the time, and it did me no harm.

I yell at my kids - but never insult them.   I'll yell "Get down here now", not "You are stupid"

[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics