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[quote=Anonymous]In no way does this excuse the ILs behavior, but maybe having the mother die makes the ILs think too much re their own morality. Some people think of how short life is and take the attitude "seize the day" and tell their loved ones every day every chance they get I love you. Others think of their morality and freak out. If ILs are close in age to OPs mother, maybe they think, crap, I'm next, and just freeze up. I can totally see my FIL completely ignoring me if one of my parents passes away. He's a bit weird, and doesn't do anything that makes him uncomfortable, so a bit selfish I guess. My MIL would be complete opposite, over the top, tell me repeatedly she's there for me, that she can be my new mom, etc. it's just amazing how people react during deaths. OP, so sorry for your loss, try to put the hurt re your ILs behind you. You've been through so much pain lately, letting this go could possibly relieve of a burden. Good luck[/quote]
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