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[quote=Anonymous]I am one of those people who is paralyzed by fear of saying or doing the wrong thing when someone dies. I know that people want to have their loss acknowledged, but I fear that I will inadvertently say the wrong thing and cause them more pain. I know this is irrational and, in all honesty, a selfish response to the situation, but it is very real. I only post this to let you know that you MIL may not have had any ill intent. If she came over and sat with your mother, and supported you and your DH generally in caring for your mom, that is what you need to focus on. Your anger at her is misplaced. Please try to get over this and move forward with her. I feel that you both owe each other an apology. Her for not being available to you during your grief, and you for attacking her afterwards. Good luck and hugs! I am sure that your mother wouldn't want her death to be the cause of continued ill will between your kids and their grandmother.[/quote]
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