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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Confronted the toxic "friend".  It went about as well as I expected, which is to say not at all well.  She feels her perspective is the One True Way, and that she is justified in her critiques of my lifestyle and choices.  She confirmed that her interests are the most important thing, and all other matters pale in comparison.  She sees herself as superior and feels entitled to judge, which is a dealbreaker for me.  As I feared, the other friend in the package deal is no longer a friend either.  While that's sad, I[b] have to wonder what kind of friend she was to allow Ms. Toxicity to run her mouth the way she did.
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Note to self: you don't have to be a doormat to be nice. [b] You're allowed to be yourself; you don't need approval.
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I need to figure out why I put up with her sh*t for so long, so I don't do that again.

Thanks for all the suggestions.  I will keep them for reference, in case I find myself allowing another judge into my life.[/quote]

Maybe it's not as big of a deal as you have made it out to be. Maybe you are a bit insecure and interpret her comments and "judging" when someone more self confident wouldn't??

ps -- you ARE allowed to be yourself. And so is your former friend, which you apparently couldn't accept.[/quote]

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