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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. Thanks. It's an issue that has been rearing its head since before we were married. I guess I thought things would change. That's my fault. I'll admit to that. He basically wants us to be swingers and for me to be a sex freak (hopefully, you still think I'm sane!). I'm definitely not a prude, but I can't picture being that person for the next 30 years either. I don't know whether to just embrace it and be unhappy but have my kid all the time or to take a gamble at being happy on my own/without him and having my kid 50% of the time. It's also pretty much the only thing we fight about. So I almost know that even if I give in and go with it for a few months/years, it's probably going to eventually taper off to something he isn't pleased with in that department. Planting us right back here..but with an older, more aware child. Unless there is a magic pill out there that will make me change (and enjoy the change!), I'm just not sure I can keep it up. [/quote]

This lifestyle is not suitable for child rearing. [b]He will end up losing custody[/b]. This behavior should be criminal.[/quote]

But he won't if he is otherwise an even marginally decent parent.[/quote]

Being a swinger is not grounds for losing custody. You (and I) may not agree with it morally but it is a legal activity that many people engage in. Most keep it completely private and their children are not aware. A thousand times better than cheating.

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Agreed, and it has nothing to do with whether someone is a good parent.  [/quote]

So let me get this straight.

The husband want to force his wife into having group sex and against her wishes or force her to leave?

How does that not affect child rearing especially if they have girls?
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