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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you owe MIL nothing. Talk to DH and see how he feels, but you also need to stand up to MIL. Additionally, it doesn't matter how she treats your son. What matters is how she treats you and DH. If she can't treat you and DH appropriately (AKA the opposite of what you've outlined in your post), then she shouldn't get to spend time alone with your son. If she doesn't like weekend visits or a hotel, then tough luck for her. Tell her that's all you can do and hopefully another weekend in the future will work out for her to come visit while staying at a hotel. You can also explain to her why you have these boundaries, but I've dealt with people like her before and that only makes it worse. But don't let her dictate when and how long she stays with you.[/quote]
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